Born Free

The laws in Singapore are generally quite light on animal abuses, a case highlighted recently where one dog died of heat exhaustion and the owner was left off with just a minor fine.
The AVA (Agri-Food and Veterinary Authority) is also imposing higher annual license fee for unsterilised male dogs, and higher penalties for unlicensed dogs. Traceable microchip tags may be made compulsory too.

The reason why I'm bringing this issue out, is because I have been wanting to write about animals and pets, notably after xiaxue wrote some political incorrect issues about animals.
political incorrect, but how true.


to begin, let me state this statement.
a pet lover is NOT necessarily an animal lover.


People who own pets claim incessantly that they love animals, bullshit. (i'm generalising and will be generalising this whole entry, but i do know that it doesnt apply to all)
you love your pet. you love PETS. its quite a stretch for you to claim you love ANIMALS, isn't it.
as xiaxue would hv termed it, you're a cute-lover, not an animal lover.

to me, you're just a pet lover.

Firstly, being an animal lover mean more than doting on your current dog/cat/fish/bird/small furry creature. to me, it means consciously doing your best to make sure animals are well-treated, or at least reduce ur impact on their lives.

the road to hell is paved with good intentions


they're dying coz they are cute.

First of all, by buying a pet, you are encouraging an industry that actually thrives on trading in animals. although i must agree that your pet may be probably better off, since judging from the varieties of pet food, pet toys, pet grooming etc, i do believe that animals on a whole are worse off. to bring that dog/cat/fish/bird/small furry creatures (aka d/c/f/b/sfa) to the market, chances are, some animals died from birth to transportation to the petshop. even the alives one have to endure pretty bad conditions from his birthplace to your home.

let me give this example. on versak days, some buddhist devouts like to release birds/fishes into their natural habitats. they call it "fang sheng" (放生).
so some enterprising merchants realise that there is a market out there, and there they go, catching wild birds and wild turtles/fishes etc in the weeks before versak day.
i know for certain that the nets used to capture wild birds inevitably maimed and killed some of the birds, deemed not appropriate to sell. of course these birds died needlessly. not to mentioned the luckier alive ones have to live in cages and bad conditions till versak day itself.


Grant them the freedom that was theirs to begin with...


the buddhist devouts' kind intentions have brought much suffering.



More often than not, many pple probably choose their pets on looks.
"oooo so cute!!" blah blah.
how many of these pet lovers would equally dote their love on an uglier animal? not many, i feel. just take a walk around any pet shops, the cutiest, sweetest animals are displayed prominently on display windows. people almost inevitably buy pets based on looks. i mean, i can't blame them, i can't possibly judge a d/c/f/b/sfa's character.....

but reading a few blogs recently, i've came across cases where pet-lovers abandon their rabbits/dogs simply because its no longer cute.....
haih..

i digress a little here.
sometimes for fun, i would like to joke how much I love to eat a dog/rabbit/small furry creatures (rabbits bearing most of my crude remarks since some army course do teach u how to kill a rabbit for food), and then..... people would tell me:

"eee...how can u eat the rabbit? the rabbit so cute!!!"

i absolutely loath it.

what? the chicken deserves to be eaten coz its not nice-looking?? you can eat beef coz cows r ugly izzit? Pork chops for u, madam, coz pigs are disgusting??
how can u discriminate against animals like tat!!! WTF

just because the rabbits cute then cannot eat, then the chicken very kerlian can! they don't deserve to die more than the rabbits ok!!!


now that chicken is cute again, so can we still eat KFC?


Again, when you say you're an animal lover, think again.

Do you try to use comestic or body products that have not been tested on animals?
Think again when u buy that lipstick, it has probably been rubbed in the eyes of lab rabbits.

Do you buy dolphin-safe tuna?

Do you buy paper products that uses recycled papers or from plantations?
Do u stop using Kimberly Clark products after accusations has been hurled that they use trees from ancient virgin forests?

Do you even help out at the local SPCA?


[ed: i'm not against pet-lovers. i do believe that many pet-lovers are having a much better life thanks to their pets. and i know their pets are having a good life too. my stand, however is with animals and to clarify that pet lovers aren't, necessarily animal lovers.]

I'd love to be her client

somewhere, at a meeting in a famous agency of a famous insurance company...

Manager: so tell me DO YOU WANT TO GET THE DEAL?

Chio agent: Yes I do!

Manager: YOU WANT THE DEAL?

Chio agent: Yes I do!

Manager: Would you sleep with your client to clinch the deal?

Chio agent: *ponders* Yes I would.



wah, why can't she be my agent!!
cherub wants a good agent!
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man, i'm becoming such a misogynist, someone is recruiting me to be their club's president.

Greener on the other side - Part 2

Saw this article about a 18yo boy who has NOT completed his diploma and he already won an election for a Mayor of a city.

whooo. 18 yo and he already accomplished what many had only dare dream. (not literally being Mayors lah, but accomplishing what we set out to do)

a mayor.

wonder when would I hv a decision influence in so many people's lives.

Hmmm, my dream in insurance is to hv 400 clients by 2007, and to grow with these clients. even if i managed to reach my target of 400 clients, i can only help to reach the dreams of 400 families.

Not exactly the size of a small city, but oh well.
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And of course David Letterman got the 18-yo mayor on his show.
and the top ten list, reproduced here for your reading pleasure. :)

Top Ten Good Things About Being An 18-Year-Old Mayor

10. "Parents try to tell me what to do, I raise their taxes"

9. "Every night, a different member of the town council does my homework"

8. "It's every teen's dream: The power to regulate zoning laws"

7. "Goodbye, education budget -- Hello, brand new X-box"

6. "I got a call from Demi Moore"

5. "Trying to get the city hall on an episode of 'MTV Cribs'"

4. "I don't have to wait in line at Applebee's anymore"

3. "School bullies now have to deal with the Feds"

2. "Only victory speech featuring the word 'Dude'"

1. "It's flattering when President Bush calls me for advice"

Its the thoughts.

My only birthday present this year.....


One Ring to rule them all....


A Ring from Neofik!
damn gay, I know!! muahahahhahahahaha....
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And since I love gifts so much, I took pics of another gift. A friend's wife just returned from HK and she bought me a souvenir.....


My very 1st BMW...
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Whoo.....i just realised that i hv many many friends who are november babies.
rats. disproportionately many.
and many clients as well who are born this month...

used to thought I was quite alone in this month...

ahh...maybe its the scorpio effect...
scorpios do love other scorpios after all..........

Futuristic Medieval Song

[Ed: I was informed by Yamato that LOTR took the REMIX version of Lux Aeterna, not the original version. LOTR actually used it only in the trailer, and not in the movie itself. The original version of Lux Aeterna with Kronos quartet, is in the official sountrack for the movie "Requiem for a Dream". He hereby encourages all to watch the movie "Requiem for a Dream" as well.]

Anyone noticed the theme song for the trailer of "Zathura: A Space Adventure"?

Lux Aeterna. By Clint Mansell (Requiem for a Dream)

it is one of the songs from "Lord of The Ring, The Two Towers".


Funny that a piece could be used for medieval-theme as well as a space-genre movie.

Greener on the other side - Part 1

A coincidence?

In a span of a month, a lot of my friends/clients have lamented to me about their present situations.
and how restless they are.
from different walks, some from the same university, some from overseas, some hv a bright future in their present jobs, some...well, not really.

but they all hv the same background: Young and just started work.

Maybe its the restless minds of the young.
there seems to be a large amount of discontent.

after a long 16years of education, and longing to start a new phrase of our lives, many are simply disappointed in the work we do. some of us are merely pencil-pushers.
or as one puts it, "highly paid clerks".

i can't really complain about my job, given that it has many perks and many aspects of the job fit my character well. everything is nice but sometime, as the Matrix phrased it for me...

"are we destined for greater things?"

at abt 10, i was fixated with cells and division. i read up on biology as much as i could, cranking as much info about tissues and cells as possible. i was very sure i want to spend my life with a microscope, peering at the miracle of life everday.

then i grew up from young reading about alternative renewable energies. i got interested & wanted to do something that matters, to see if i can develop a blueprint for singapore.
heck, i think i know more abt alternative energy than the average engineer.

i got fascinated abt fusion and fission technology, i read about breeder reactors, abt pebble core fuel, about laser fusion and magnetic fusion.

nanotechnology interests me too, its amazing to me how "disruptive" this technology could be. from fighting dieases to combatting pollution and creating structures beyond nature.

and hey, even when i confined myself to my disclipine, i googled economics of oil for fun. i checked out the fundamentals of weather-insurance, crops futures. i read up on real value of virtual economics built up in virtual space by gamers.



but what do you know. turn up that I can't make a big difference in this world after all.

To feed an army

It was a typical day.
After a long day of work, finally its time for dinner. at 11pm plus.

I met up with the primary school gang for supper at Jalan Kayu.

And I saw the waitress carrying a tray with a mountain of pratas, and 2 large plates of curry, with large chunky piece of chicken.

And I thought to myself, an army must have ordered that.


Imagine my surprise when she planked down the food at a table of 2 tiny, little teenager boys.
and the boys started attacking them.

I can't help but walked up to them and asked them "eh friend I've never seen anyone eaten so much pratas before, can I take a picture of your food?"


Pratas. Lots of them.

Yes, they finished every one of them, and the curry was wiped out as well.
And the two boys took a cab home.

I love teenagers.

If he delayed Insurance....

I've just visited a friend in hospital.

wah. cn't believe how close it is. He just bought hospital insurance from me 2 days ago!

2 days! Less than 48hours!!!!!!!!
and now he's hospitalised.

if he had been slightly late, not only would he be uninsured, the company may reject him in the end if he wants to buy later.

wah i feel a slight sense of pride now. heng ah.
but then....really 人算不如天算.
haih.
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Off to a good lunch to Shangri-la! My company treating some agents for lunch there..
photos later, I promise.
:)

CORNfirm Corny Joke

Dave is driving down a rural highway late at night. He's been driving for a long, LONG time, and he's starting to get REALLY tired, but he is SO far out in the country that there are no hotels or inns ANYWHERE. So finally he decides that he is tired enough to just pull over at the next house and ask to spend the night. He pulls up at a pink house with pink trim, pink shutters, pink windows, and a pink door. He gets out of his car, walks up the pink sidewalk, up the pink driveway, climbs the pink steps, and rings the pink doorbell. A pink lady comes to answer the pink door. Dave explains to her, "Ma'am, I know it's late, but I'm really tired, and if I could just spend the night, I'd really appreciate it." The pink lady says, "Sure, no problem! Come on inside! Go up the pink stairs, down the pink hallway, and behind the first pink door on your right you'll find a pink bedroom. Inside the pink closet are some pink sheets, pink blankets, and pink pillowcases that you can put on the pink bed and the pink pillows. Sleep well!" So Dave steps inside the pink door, walks up the pink steps, down the pink hallway, and opens the first pink door on the right. He walks into the pink bedroom, goes to the pink closet, and takes out the pink blanket, the pink sheets, and the pink pillowcases. He puts the pink sheets and pink blanket on the bed, and the pink pillowcases on the pink pillows. He climbs under the pink covers, turns out the pink light, and falls immediately asleep.

Time passes. A second man, Bob, is driving down the same highway. He, too, has been driving for quite some time and desperately needs sleep. But there are no hotels or inns anywhere to be found, so Bob decides to pull over at the next house that comes up. He parks in front of the pink house with pink trim, pink shutters, pink windows, and a pink door. He gets out of his car, walks up the pink sidewalk, up the pink driveway, climbs the pink steps, and rings the pink doorbell. The pink lady comes to answer the pink door. Bob explains to her, "Ma'am, I'm really sorry for ringing your doorbell so late at night, but I've been driving for hours and hours, and all I need is to please spend the night?" The pink lady says, "Sure! Come on in! Go up the pink stairs, down the pink hallway, and behind the second pink door on your right you'll find a pink bedroom. In the pink closet are some pink sheets, pink blankets, and pink pillowcases that you can put on the pink bed and the pink pillows. Sleep well!" So Bob steps inside the pink door, walks up the pink steps, down the pink hallway, and opens the second pink door on the right. He walks into the pink bedroom, goes to the pink closet, and takes out the pink blanket, the pink sheets, and the pink pillowcases. He puts the pink sheets and pink blanket on the bed, and the pink pillowcases on the pink pillows. He climbs under the pink covers, turns out the pink light, and falls immediately asleep.

Time passes. A third man, Fred, is driving down the same highway. Like Dave and Bob, Fred has been driving for a long time, only Fred has been driving longer that either Dave or Bob. He can barely keep his eyes open. Because there are no hotels or inns, Fred decides to pull over at the next house. He parks in front of the pink house with pink trim, pink shutters, pink windows, and a pink door. He gets out of his car, walks up the pink sidewalk, up the pink driveway, climbs the pink steps, and rings the pink doorbell. The pink lady comes to answer the pink door. Fred, so tired he can barely speak, manages to stammer out, "Ma'am, I hate to bother you so late at night, but I really need some sleep. Could I stay at your house?" The pink lady says, "Sure! Come on inside! Go up the pink stairs, down the pink hallway, and behind the third pink door on your right you'll find a pink bedroom. In the pink closet are some pink sheets, pink blankets, and pink pillowcases that you can put on the pink bed and the pink pillows. Sleep well!" So Fred staggers through the pink door, walks up the pink stairs, down the pink hallway, and into the third pink door on the right. He walks into the pink bedroom, goes to the pink closet, and takes out the pink blanket, the pink sheets, and the pink pillowcases. He puts the pink sheets and pink blanket on the bed, and the pink pillowcases on the pink pillows. He climbs under the pink covers, turns out the pink light, and falls immediately asleep.

TIME PASSES. The sun rises. Dave wakes up. He climbs out of the pink bed, strips the pink blankets and pink sheets off the pink bed, and takes the pink pillowcases off the pink pillows. He puts the pink blankets, pink sheets, and pink pillowcases into the pink closet, and leaves the pink bedroom. He walks down the pink hallway, down the pink stairs, takes a left, and walks into a pink kitchen with pink cabinets, a pink floor, pink shelves, pink fixtures, and the pink lady, going through the motions of making breakfast. The pink lady says, "Good morning! What would you like for breakfast? We have Honey Stars or Frosties." Dave says, "Frosties, please." The pink lady goes to the pink cupboard and takes out a pink bowl. She goes to the pink silverware drawer and takes out a pink spoon. She pours some Frosties out of a pink box into the pink bowl, goes to the refrigerator and takes out a pink milk carton, pours the milk into the pink bowl and sets the pink bowl and pink spoon in front of Dave. Dave sits down on the pink chair at the pink table and eats his Frosties. He finishes, thanks the pink lady, goes out of the pink kitchen, out the pink door, down the pink steps, down the pink driveway, down the pink sidewalk, gets into his car and drives away.

A little while later, Bob wakes up. He climbs out of the pink bed, strips the pink blankets and pink sheets off the pink bed, and takes the pink pillowcases off the pink pillows. He puts the pink blankets, pink sheets, and pink pillowcases into the pink closet, and leaves the pink bedroom. He walks down the pink hallway, down the pink stairs, takes a left, and walks into a pink kitchen with pink cabinets, a pink floor, pink shelves, pink fixtures, and the pink lady, going through the motions of making breakfast. The pink lady says, "Good morning! What would you like for breakfast? We have Honey Stars or Frosties." Bob says, "Frosties, please." The pink lady goes to the pink cupboard and takes out a pink bowl. She goes to the pink silverware drawer and takes out a pink spoon. She pours some Frosties out of a pink box into the pink bowl, goes to the refrigerator and takes out a pink milk carton, pours the milk into the pink bowl and sets the pink bowl and pink spoon in front of Bob. Bob sits down on the pink chair at the pink table and eats his Frosties. He finishes, thanks the pink lady, goes out of the pink kitchen, out the pink door, down the pink steps, down the pink driveway, down the pink sidewalk, gets into his car and drives away.

Finally, Fred wakes up after a long sleep. He climbs out of the pink bed, strips the pink blankets and pink sheets off the pink bed, and takes the pink pillowcases off the pink pillows. He puts the pink blankets, pink sheets, and pink pillowcases into the pink closet, and leaves the pink bedroom. He walks down the pink hallway, down the pink stairs, takes a left, and walks into a pink kitchen with pink cabinets, a pink floor, pink shelves, pink fixtures, and the pink lady, going through the motions of making breakfast. The pink lady says, "Good morning! What would you like for breakfast? We have Honey Stars or Frosties." Fred says, "Honey Stars, please." The pink lady goes to the pink cupboard and takes out a pink bowl. She goes to the pink silverware drawer and takes out a pink spoon. She pours some Honey Stars out of a pink box into the pink bowl, goes to the refrigerator and takes out a pink milk carton, pours the milk into the pink bowl and sets the pink bowl and pink spoon in front of Fred. Fred sits down on the pink chair at the pink table and eats his Honey Stars. He finishes, thanks the pink lady, goes out of the pink kitchen, out the pink door, down the pink steps, down the pink driveway, down the pink sidewalk, gets into his car and drives away.


What is the moral of the story?
Two out of three people prefer Frosties to Honey Stars

Increase your hotmail account for non-US resident.

Hotmail has upgraded the email account size to 200mbytes a very long time ago, but until now, it has only applied to US residents.

For non-US residents, we are still stuck with 2mbyte file size which is simply too little. If you're not willing to go through the hassle of migrating to Gmail or Yahoo, or simply because that hotmail account is your MSN account as well, here is a simple way for you to get the free upgrade.

Just follow the instructions below.
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1. Sign in to your hotmail account & change your personal profile in e Options as follows:

Country: United States
State: Florida (choose another state if you want - http://www.50states.com/)

Zip Code: 33332 (choose another zip code if you want - http://www.downloadzipcode.com/). Needless to say, you need to enter e zip code that belongs to e state you've chosen.

2. Then get to e Language options & make it English if it's not.

3. If you don't want to lose your Inbox, click Put in folder.
From the menu, choose New Folder.
Create your new folder & go back to your Inbox.
Select e emails that you don't want to lose & click Put in folder once more.
Choose e folder you have just created & e emails you have chosen will be moved to that folder.
You can move them to your Inbox again later by e same method.

4. Before signing out, paste e link below into e address bar & press "enter" key. When e new screen pops up, click on "Close my account".
Your account will be deactivated.
http://by17fd.bay17.hotmail.msn.com/cgi-bin/Accountclose

5. Now visit e address http://www.hotmail.com again.
Enter your username & password.
The activation page will load.
Follow e instructions & click on "continue" to activate your mail account.

6. You're done !
Now your mail account capacity has grown to 25 MB & in a month or so it will be 250 MB.
Enjoy your "enlarged" hotmail account!

7. You might wish to switch back to ur original personal profile after you are done with "enlarging" your hotmail account.

The court Jester

Everyone loves him, but not that way.

He jokes and he creates fun.
He speaks simple revelation in the midst of gibberish.

everyone loves him because he's so entertaining.
but everyone wants to marry the prince.
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sigh.

No ice cream for you

Fun Fact: A crocodile cannot stick out its tongue.

Source: Original Juice

The flawless cake.

I come from such a typical Asian family.

You know, the family members do love each other, but there is no expression of such.
no "i love you mummy daddy", no hugs, no outright expression of concerns.
(except towards my brother, but he's 9. we'll stop soon, i know)

Sooo typical Asian!!!


So on my birthday, when my family bought me a cake, they mean it.
really "bought me a cake".

No birthday songs. No candles! No gathering to blow candles and birthday wishes those kind.
We're asians, wad.

the cake was bought, and stayed in the fridge.

so when everyone's asleep, i hv to go to the fridge and take the cake out. Cake still in box, ah.... box still in plastic bag!!!
Open it, throw away the candles, and cut a slice for myself.



Flawless. No candle marks, no cuts.....
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To my dear friends,
thanks for trying to organise a gathering for my bday, but I really prefer to spend this special day of mine alone.

Let me use an analogy. I love chicken rice, u guys love western food.
Cannot be my bday, i sacrifice come eat western food with u guys right?
so my bday, of course i wanna eat my chicken rice.

I really love to spend my special day alone. No reason, and its not because I have any problem! And its NOT because I have PMS.
I wanna celebrate u guys' bdays coz i love celebrating bdays...:P
but my own bday, i love to do it my own special way... i'm absolutely fine and I truly enjoy my bday this way.

I'm clarifying this coz it would be the same for the next 75 years. :)

lastly, really appreciate the efforts and grateful to all my friends. thank you all, especially e3.

Forget it.

i'm the boy.

i'm the boy.


i'm the boy who had a normal childhood, a normal family, and a normal life (at least compared to others, i think).

i'm the boy that studied in a "branded" primary school.
i'm the boy that got streamed into a "lousier" class at primary 6.

i'm the boy that my parents promised me a PC (pc are uncommon and expensive then) if i get into a SAP sch (PSLE minimum score of 250), because no one thought I could do it.
i'm the boy that did it, just to prove everyone wrong.

i'm the boy that joined NCC coz I love the army.
i'm the boy who got condemned in NCC.

i'm the boy who fell in love in my jc.
i'm the boy who found the one to marry when i was in jc.

i'm the boy who screwed up my maths C (AO pass, thats as good as failing)
i'm the boy who still secured a place in NUS. (i'm blessed)

i'm the boy that promised to love her till the end.
i'm also the boy that promised to end her life.

i'm the boy who almost got charged in army.
i'm the boy who worked hard to survive the army charges.

i'm the boy who was suicidal once.
i'm the boy who didn't try.

i'm the boy who don't bother socialising, not in sec, not in jc. not in his life.
i'm the boy who socialised too much in university.

i'm the boy who gave up everything for the one he loves.
including the one.

i'm the boy who tears through growing up.
i'm the boy who hasn't stop, i think.

i'm the boy buaya.
i'm the boy they said, is a good friend, but not a good boyfriend.

i'm the boy who loves love.
i'm the boy which love doesn't love.

i'm the little boy.
i'm the birthday boy.

some girls really irritate me

was talking to a female friend and just realised how much i am irritated by female friendships.
i got lots of female friends, but only a very small percentage are true blue friends....

platonic r/s, my ass.

i have moved out of hostel for 2 years, and frankly, barely any of the female hostel friends took the initative to maintain the friendship.
i have like 40 pple from my hall on my MSN, and very seldom a female would bother to msg to catch up and chill.

the rare few msg i received is ALWAYS about some laptop problems and requests for troubleshooting.

A close friend of mine, lets call him Mr Cute. He was damn popular with girls and stuff, and he rents an apartment with 2 very close female friends that have forged a friendship with him for the past 3 university years (i think). And now, he's sourcing for an apartment away from the 2 girls, because they have grown distant ever since graduation, despite staying at the same apartment everyday!!

they spent time alone in their room, never bothering to socialise with Mr Cute.

girls, don't u bother to maintain a friendship???????
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i hv a hostel mate (nicked CH) tat grew very close to me while i was in year 1. i dunno whether it had anything to do, but i felt that she totally withdrew from me after she got attached.
and her friend (nicked V) too, whom i tot was quite interesting because she is one of the rare few who possess a great interest and knowledge in history (surprise, i may be an economist but i love history). and then this friend too totally forgot abt me. i saw her at NIE once, but she just hi and bye. can't remember when, but i guessed she totally lost this friendship after she got attached.

i mean, harlow!??!?

i cn't believe CH and V can suddenly lose this friend here, and another friend TF, she was wondering what happened and she approached CH and asked her how come she don't talk to me anymore (this happened 3 years ago)

and CH said "cherub seems weird, he changed"

watever.
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i have a few close friends right now, and day-in, day-out, i hear them complaining abt their bfs banning them from seeing which guy friends or from doing some activities. Like clubbing or going shopping, or just meeting new pple. hello people, get a life, losers (referring to the bfs), if u have to be so insecure abt ur gf dumping u, u need to play less playstation, and grow up a little more.

and the girls, sorry but u're equally stupid. your world doesn't revolve around ur bf. don't lose any friend just because u're attached. if u hv to live ur life according to a standard of your bf, then obviously he found the wrong girl, so you either accept that and stop complaining or u ditch him.
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i am gonna get slammed so much for this, but its the truth. female can't make their own decision. no matter wat it is, they will have to ask their bf, mother, father, friends and whatsoever before deciding whether they should -watever-

and some females can listen to others pple opinion before deciding whether this person is good or bad. don't u hv a mind of your own? if u can listen to flamers, or some rumours and then decided that cherub is a bad guy, wahlao, i hope u enjoy your tofu before choking on it. i absolutely hate it when a trust is misplaced simply because the girl rather listen to other pple...

and no, so far, i havent seen any man that actually do this -they-say-so-then-i-must-listen-shit-
so pls dun prove me wrong on this....
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and yes, if you don't treasure this friendship, please for god's sake, delete me from your hp and msn, don't bother msg me again. don't irritate me to call me and ask me for computer problems.
kindly do yourself a favour and google for the answer.

and yes, some men do have this problem too. i have 2 close army mates who blocked me on msn for watever reasons. fark lah. after all these years of friendship and hardship (fark lor, army mates lor, u see them 18 hrs a day for 2 years) you can destroy a friendship coz of watever reason.
i respect u lah.


i dun think i would ever marry. seriously.