so Absolut had a same problem. he can't stand lending money, esp to close friends that he feel paiseh to ask the money back.
esp when this friend of his, borrowed money and yet refuses to cut down on his expediture, spending even more than him.
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for all my complains abt lending money, i gave in again.
ya ya, i know, i pledged never to lend money again.......
i broke it within a week...nb...remind me not to anyhow promise again....
ya but the case is geninue. someone really needs the money, so i guess i can't say no to that.
and i told her, don't worry abt returning, just take good care of yourself.
so i guess i hv to rephrase my promise huh.
I promise i would not lend money to people who are not in serious need!
this time, cannot break promise!!
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I think i got really pissed a long time ago when this army mate borrowed money from me to buy a motorbike.
he promised he would return within a specific time-date.
and of course he didn't.
i was furious, because the money lent was a few hundreds, not a small amount.
and it was for a luxury purpose, not an emergency or serious case.
he didn't return on time, and he didn't bother to alert me in advance.
that was when i learnt that friend-borrowers have this mentality of delaying payments. because it doesn't cost them! no interest, no pressure.
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i can't get this mentality coz I just took an advance of $1000 from a business venture. technically its not a loan since I have invested much more in the business, and we are splitting a large portion of the revenue in 2 days time.
but the advance already made me feel awkward. I never like to owe money.
even for 2 days.
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One thing I learnt recently.
Chio teachers are FIERCE.
she can be damn chio, smiles sweetly at you, and then snarled at the children, "STAND IN YOUR PLACE!!"
wah. this one really fierce.
[Editor note: @#%#$#@%# google one whole night for images can only get this pic and the one below. if u look closely, both are the same model. (same pose somemore!) wah liew, whole internet so big, only got 2 non-pornographic sexy teacher picture....
simi world wide web?!]
3 comments:
the fierce chio teacher bit is kinda random..haha!
but on that bit abt lending people money... i get you.
after promising myself tt i would never lend ppl money, I pretty much did the same thing...and until now I have yet to see my money. it's been 2 years, I don't think I'll get it back.
I dunno, very difficult to 做好人, you know?
ya lor...
好人难做。。。。。:(
my hand chio-er
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