some girls really irritate me

was talking to a female friend and just realised how much i am irritated by female friendships.
i got lots of female friends, but only a very small percentage are true blue friends....

platonic r/s, my ass.

i have moved out of hostel for 2 years, and frankly, barely any of the female hostel friends took the initative to maintain the friendship.
i have like 40 pple from my hall on my MSN, and very seldom a female would bother to msg to catch up and chill.

the rare few msg i received is ALWAYS about some laptop problems and requests for troubleshooting.

A close friend of mine, lets call him Mr Cute. He was damn popular with girls and stuff, and he rents an apartment with 2 very close female friends that have forged a friendship with him for the past 3 university years (i think). And now, he's sourcing for an apartment away from the 2 girls, because they have grown distant ever since graduation, despite staying at the same apartment everyday!!

they spent time alone in their room, never bothering to socialise with Mr Cute.

girls, don't u bother to maintain a friendship???????
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i hv a hostel mate (nicked CH) tat grew very close to me while i was in year 1. i dunno whether it had anything to do, but i felt that she totally withdrew from me after she got attached.
and her friend (nicked V) too, whom i tot was quite interesting because she is one of the rare few who possess a great interest and knowledge in history (surprise, i may be an economist but i love history). and then this friend too totally forgot abt me. i saw her at NIE once, but she just hi and bye. can't remember when, but i guessed she totally lost this friendship after she got attached.

i mean, harlow!??!?

i cn't believe CH and V can suddenly lose this friend here, and another friend TF, she was wondering what happened and she approached CH and asked her how come she don't talk to me anymore (this happened 3 years ago)

and CH said "cherub seems weird, he changed"

watever.
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i have a few close friends right now, and day-in, day-out, i hear them complaining abt their bfs banning them from seeing which guy friends or from doing some activities. Like clubbing or going shopping, or just meeting new pple. hello people, get a life, losers (referring to the bfs), if u have to be so insecure abt ur gf dumping u, u need to play less playstation, and grow up a little more.

and the girls, sorry but u're equally stupid. your world doesn't revolve around ur bf. don't lose any friend just because u're attached. if u hv to live ur life according to a standard of your bf, then obviously he found the wrong girl, so you either accept that and stop complaining or u ditch him.
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i am gonna get slammed so much for this, but its the truth. female can't make their own decision. no matter wat it is, they will have to ask their bf, mother, father, friends and whatsoever before deciding whether they should -watever-

and some females can listen to others pple opinion before deciding whether this person is good or bad. don't u hv a mind of your own? if u can listen to flamers, or some rumours and then decided that cherub is a bad guy, wahlao, i hope u enjoy your tofu before choking on it. i absolutely hate it when a trust is misplaced simply because the girl rather listen to other pple...

and no, so far, i havent seen any man that actually do this -they-say-so-then-i-must-listen-shit-
so pls dun prove me wrong on this....
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and yes, if you don't treasure this friendship, please for god's sake, delete me from your hp and msn, don't bother msg me again. don't irritate me to call me and ask me for computer problems.
kindly do yourself a favour and google for the answer.

and yes, some men do have this problem too. i have 2 close army mates who blocked me on msn for watever reasons. fark lah. after all these years of friendship and hardship (fark lor, army mates lor, u see them 18 hrs a day for 2 years) you can destroy a friendship coz of watever reason.
i respect u lah.


i dun think i would ever marry. seriously.