On Alvin Tan Jye Yee, 24 yo and Vivian Lee 23 yo, authors of Sumptuous Erotica, a blog on their sex lives, with adult videos and photos.
"I see nothing wrong in posting the nude pictures and videos of our sexual relationship on the Internet. It was intended for the world to see how much we love each other. I cannot understand why people have to make so much fuss about this. It is our private affair"
"To us, the pictures on the blog were a work of art. We are open-minded people and we just want to share this with the world. We want them to see how pretty it was."
"It is all right for Westerners to do this but not Asians. This is double standard. I cannot understand why people have to judge us."
"There is nothing wrong talking about or having sex. It is a normal thing between two consenting adults. There should not be any stigma when a couple wants to talk or be frank about this. I cannot understand why this has to be blown out of proportion and sensationalised."
"I don't care about what people think or say about me or their perception of who I am. I don't care if men stare or ogle when I am out in public. Neither am I embarrassed for being the girl in the erotic pictures and videos."
"Instead, this would make our relationship stronger,"_____________________________________________________________
Morally I disagree totally with their thinkings.
I think sex between 2 person in love is a wonderful thing and should be kept private and beautiful.
It is really not something to be shared with others, let alone, to be displayed openly with remarks, and invitations for swinging and exchange of sex partners.
That does not sound like love. It sounds more like just... porn.
And their blog/tumblr is not even classy. Displaying a used sanitary pad is just... plain turn-off. I cannot, for the life of me, see any artistic or sexual value from a piece of used sanitary pad.
If it is meant to shock, well, i guess it did serve its purposes.
Personally, I feel disgusted over their "sharing".
But then... who the hell am I to pass judgement on 2 people who live their own lives and did not do anything that intrude on others?
They did not imposed their views on others. They did not ask us to convert to swingers.
They did not ask us to follow their beliefs.
They were happy for doing what they are doing.
We were the ones (me guilty as charged) who came along and imposed our moral high grounds on them, who splattered tons of their photos (ahem), including those that exposed their bodies, and also their pornographic videos on our own media.
We judge them, then we share their stuff.... = /
This blog has constrain itself to only posing clothed photos of alvin and vivian, and definitely nor of their videos. As of today, I have received several links to their sexual photos, pornographic videos from readers.
(if you guys must watch them, Google is your friend)
I am amused. This is the irony of our morality.
And on the comments sections of the youtube video (blog post here), there are simply tons of vicious, angry remarks about them their families and even their future generations.
No wonder gays and lesbians have a hard time. No wonder racism is up. No wonder terrorism is still haunting the world.
We really need to let go more, and just tolerate other people doing things that we may not like, as long as they do not impose them on us.
Happiness should be the only criteria.
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